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At least for a little while.
I'm not okay. And I'm tired of pretending that I am. I'm telling you all this because I love you, and you have all been there for me when no one else has.
I apologize for the way I've been acting the last few weeks. I think there might be something very wrong with me, like my serotonin levels, or my hormones are all out of wack or something. I'm not a doctor, so I'm not going to try and diagnose myself. But I just wanted you all to know that I am sorry, and that I am going to be seeking help. And this is why I am taking a hiatus.
Because crying all the time and wanting to die, that's not normal. That's not me. I'm slipping into this vicious cycle of depression and sever self harm, and I'm scared.
I want to get better, so I'm going to try.
-Kayla
UPDATE: So, um--I honestly don't know how to go about helping myself, or getting help. I tell my family how I'm feeling and I think, "Wow, this is going to be okay." at first. And then the yelling and all the name calling happens all over again. Basically it's a huge shit storm of well--shit that makes me cry. I spent my whole morning with my mother telling me how ugly I was and 'no wonder no one wants you's'. I have learned to accept that this is the way my family functions, but I can't just walk away right now. I have nowhere I can go, and I don't graduate from college until December. But, I'm also not sure I can make it til then. I'm not even sure I want help anymore, or if I even deserve it.
On the bright, and/or darker side, if you choose to look at it that away--I have been doing a hell of a lot of writing!
UPDATE: So, um--I honestly don't know how to go about helping myself, or getting help. I tell my family how I'm feeling and I think, "Wow, this is going to be okay." at first. And then the yelling and all the name calling happens all over again. Basically it's a huge shit storm of well--shit that makes me cry. I spent my whole morning with my mother telling me how ugly I was and 'no wonder no one wants you's'. I have learned to accept that this is the way my family functions, but I can't just walk away right now. I have nowhere I can go, and I don't graduate from college until December. But, I'm also not sure I can make it til then. I'm not even sure I want help anymore, or if I even deserve it.
On the bright, and/or darker side, if you choose to look at it that away--I have been doing a hell of a lot of writing!
Greetings!
Hello all of my lovely friends! I hope this little update finds you all well and good! I myself have had quite the busy year - though I've popped up on here every once in a while to check in. I'm still writing, still creating - still trying to help as I always have. I may post some new material in the very near future - so I hope you all enjoy that. I want to once again be a contributing voice among this community that's embraced me and had my back for so many years. Wish me luck!
That said, something has come to my attention within the last couple of days, though the issue seems to have been dealt with. (Thankfully. Though I'd still like to
A very good friend of mine passed away last night.
I am completely speechless and heartbroken. My good friend and fellow writer, PoeticSins (https://www.deviantart.com/poeticsins) passed away last night. I can't wrap my mind around it. Sickle Cell has claimed the life of another wonderful person and I can't even seem to put into words how I feel about this right now. Kee was a beautiful, genuine person and completely unafraid to speak the truth. I will miss her for the rest of my days, but I will also know she is no longer in any pain. She was my rock during some very hard times in my own life and I just wish so desperately that I could have been there for her too during this.
But, she does leave behind her words. And I'll s
Update! :)
Hello everyone! I've missed you, and dA! But I've been so so busy with life and a serious lack in inspiration. And I'll be completely honest and say that I haven't written a poem in maybe 8 months. I hope to change that soon; I'm trying, I really am. I moved out of my and my fathers old apartment and now live in a tiny efficiency with my cat. There are boxes everywhere as I have way too many books, haha. But things seem to be looking up for me and I just wanted to keep my dA family updated as some of you seemed quite worried. Just know that I love you all and you're amazing.
-Kayla
Christmas Wishlist
I was tagged by LionesseRampant (https://www.deviantart.com/lionesserampant)
Her wish list can be found here:
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You can make it, You definitely deserve to, and you will. You have to know you will. So what if your family is full of jerks, they don't define you, you define you. And you are beautiful and amazing and just cause you may not feel like it at the moment doesn't make it any less true. I am thinking of you often<3